Borderless: A Story of Wanderlust and Resilience
Exploring the Uncharted Territories of Life

Exploring the Uncharted Territories of Life

Borderless is the wildly true, wickedly funny, and deeply heartfelt story of a woman who has lived a dozen lifetimes in one. Valerie Dost von Dostenberg takes readers on a breathtaking journey across continents, careers, heartbreaks, reinventions, and moments so absurd they could only be real.
Born in the serene beauty of Switzerland and shaped by a childhood filled with curiosity and contradiction, Valerie grows into a woman who refuses to sit still. Her life becomes a series of bold leaps: from navigating the polished world of billionaire estates and celebrity households to enlisting in the U.S. Navy at thirty-six, where she trades stilettos for steel-toed boots and discovers grit she never knew she had.
She travels to 76 countries, survives more than her share of shattering losses, and still finds a way to laugh at the absurdity of life—whether she’s chasing down missing remotes for a pop star, jetting across oceans in search of her next adventure, or finding herself in yet another unexpected corner of the world wondering how, exactly, she got there.
Yet the heart of Borderless isn’t just the chaos—it’s the courage to start over, the softness that remains after every hard chapter, and the quiet truth that home isn’t a place, but a feeling you carry inside you.
Funny, fearless, and profoundly human, Borderless is a celebration of resilience, reinvention, and the beautiful, unpredictable mess of a life lived without borders.
It’s a reminder that you can lose everything, travel far, love deeply, break spectacularly, and still rise - again and again - with humor, grit, and a suitcase ready for whatever adventure comes next.

Valerie Dost von Dostenberg is a Swiss-American adventurer, memoirist, Navy Seabee veteran, and internationally seasoned Chief of Staff and Estate Manager whose life has unfolded across 76 countries, countless reinventions, and more than a few extraordinary plot twists. Fluent in multiple languages and born with an insatiable curiosity for the world, she has built a career navigating the demanding inner workings of ultra–high-net-worth households, luxury estates, and high-profile principals—while somehow maintaining her humor, grace, and signature Swiss efficiency.
At thirty-six, Valerie did something most people only dream (or panic) about: she enlisted in the U.S. Navy Reserve and became a Seabee, stepping into a chapter filled with grit, sweat, camaraderie, and unforgettable moments that reshaped her confidence and resilience. Her military journey, paired with her global travels and civilian career, gives her a perspective that is equal parts grounded and adventurous.
Her life has also been profoundly shaped by heartbreak and the loss of loved ones, experiences that deepen her writing with honesty, tenderness, and emotional clarity. Whether trekking through Southeast Asia, coordinating chaotic celebrity households, hauling her belongings across the country in a U-Haul with her dog Duke in the passenger seat, or rebuilding life in a tiny cottage in Colorado, Valerie approaches each new beginning with courage, wit, and a spirit that simply refuses to quit.
Today, she lives in Denver, Colorado with her beloved rescue dogs, Duke and Coco Chanel, and continues to write, explore, and say yes to the unexpected. Her debut memoir, Borderless, captures a life lived boldly—one adventure, one heartbreak, and one reinvention at a time.
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